Have had the central heating installed!!! Sigh - upstairs hall carpet ruined so expense ahoy. Decided not to get an extra radiator in the bathroom - spoke to a plumber who advised better off getting an extractor fan to deal with the condensation ( a radiator woudl have been a great compliment but I need to choose as funds will not allow everything) I need a sparky to disconnect the two remaining storage heaters anyway.
Have seen some cheap carpet and as I do not intend on staying it suits my purpose. But even with this there is underlay and trimmings to include!!!
Scottish Power!!! Eurgh
Thankfully I knew I needed to change meters from econ7 to normal meters once gas fitted given the price differences however No one has advised me of this!!! Terrible of the company not to make sure this happens. Day time units are more expensive that normal units however night time units are cheaper but I only ever used night time for heating and washing machine. I work so am out all day most days! The E7 would have cost me a lot more to keep generall despite my little fascist utility companies profit policy and price hike!"""
HOWEVER:
Gas meter was fitted free of charge!!! However when I rang to ask about getting the electricity meter changed there is a charge of £54 to be paid up front!! The rationale is there is nothing wrong with the meter so I need to cover the expense/ Err what I want to do is change the product I purchase!!! I understand if you want to change from a prepayment to a normal meter and back again etc and it becomes ridiculous but to charge a customer who just wants to effectively purchase a different product from the company is ridiculous. I am looking for dual fuel and not E7 anymore. If they are happy to fit new meters for free then why not take the old one away for free...leaving a more appropriate one in its place. Meters are their property we use them. Now their product/property is no longer fit for purpose and as such should be their responsibility to change it.
I was fuming on the phone, sent an email of complaint and also plan on finding out where else I can go to complain. Shoddy customer service if you ask me. They can come out for free at awkward times to fit a new meter then why not the old meter? Why couldn't it have been done at the same time?????
ABSOLUTE you know what thieves!!! I am going to start a FB group in their honour!!! And also complain to offer or who ever the regulatory body is!
Off for a few days to a field somewhere to play about under canvas. And here was me thinking I was saving money again.... then smack another bill creeps out of the shadows! Grrrrrrrr
''Southern Plebby Working Single Mother exiled far north trying to keep afloat after all the blessings brought by Tory Dave. Penny pinching and scraping by with a caustic sense of humour and a wee sweary!''
Saturday, 13 August 2011
Monday, 8 August 2011
Bloody Housing market
OK B leaves for next posting on 5th Dec.
Local house in street behind mine also three bedrooms but with bigger garden and semi detached had offer accepted on it for 90k. A 17k drop. Bow Locks.
I can't go lower than 97k and then I will be losing money anyway. Am dropping 18k as it is plus estate agents fees and early resettlement fee and moving costs. Lucky If I am able to scrap 5k back form my original deposit. Also I have a smaller garden, and am terraced.
Its truly shite but you just have to get on with the cards you are dealt.
Local house in street behind mine also three bedrooms but with bigger garden and semi detached had offer accepted on it for 90k. A 17k drop. Bow Locks.
I can't go lower than 97k and then I will be losing money anyway. Am dropping 18k as it is plus estate agents fees and early resettlement fee and moving costs. Lucky If I am able to scrap 5k back form my original deposit. Also I have a smaller garden, and am terraced.
Its truly shite but you just have to get on with the cards you are dealt.
Thursday, 4 August 2011
Update! Self indulgent whiny me - backside kicked ...... a bit!
Thanks for the replies ladies !!! Have given self a bit of a talking to and tutted at self, stared in mirror and have given myself knowing looks and head shakes.
A small silver lining - I only have to pay for the speed course - £85- not the fine as well. I have to wait to get a number from Cumbria constabulary then book my speed course so payment is not all at once. Paid the mechanic the £140.
We have an NHS appointment. I don't think they are as thorough as private as quickly but its something. As of November we have the being in the same area for longer than a weekend issue House needs to go byeees for so so many reasons.
I have a date for my central heating - 10/11th August. Additional radiator for the bathroom which should help with the mould on the ceiling from condensation will cost £300. In fact would this help or would a fan type thing be better????
I am seeing a new estate agent 17th Aug. They are not local but a national company called Sell Quick - we'll see what they say. I am not convinced at all by estate agents not at all.
Weeny girl's dad wants her for full weekends. Friday and Saturday night starting this weekend. B and I will spend some time together Sat Night. We are going to Sheffield. It is the beginning of the football season. B off to a match. Only a few hours he doesn't do drinking before the game or after just the football. I may book shop or mooch around charity shops. Might get him to drop me off in Hillsborough and I'll mooch. We have to return a rug I purchased on the last visit - its moulting chunks of cord stuff - its a funky rug - don't ask!
I am chubby and weigh more than a stone than I did this time last year. I need to tackle this in as cheap a way as possible.
Good things that have made me smile!!!!
I hope to get to see my Mum in September. Its really shite I don't have the money to visit her. 3hr + drive there and back eats petrol and I just don't have it at the moment.
B and I are supposed to have a few days off together - we couldn't get our leave to synch - specific demands of my new job, his leave booked months and months in advance.
House goes - I move with B or I move to somewhere more affordable where I can work part time
(4 days) or term time. Option B involves finding a a new job or doing a PGCE. - I have my eye on one in (County Durham). This should give me more time to be the parent I want to be, be able to take weeny to swimming lessons, ballet etc etc
PG or sell the house or both asap. No need for the silly pills then eh!
I would be just too lucky then and that's really not me!
xxx
A small silver lining - I only have to pay for the speed course - £85- not the fine as well. I have to wait to get a number from Cumbria constabulary then book my speed course so payment is not all at once. Paid the mechanic the £140.
We have an NHS appointment. I don't think they are as thorough as private as quickly but its something. As of November we have the being in the same area for longer than a weekend issue House needs to go byeees for so so many reasons.
I have a date for my central heating - 10/11th August. Additional radiator for the bathroom which should help with the mould on the ceiling from condensation will cost £300. In fact would this help or would a fan type thing be better????
I am seeing a new estate agent 17th Aug. They are not local but a national company called Sell Quick - we'll see what they say. I am not convinced at all by estate agents not at all.
Weeny girl's dad wants her for full weekends. Friday and Saturday night starting this weekend. B and I will spend some time together Sat Night. We are going to Sheffield. It is the beginning of the football season. B off to a match. Only a few hours he doesn't do drinking before the game or after just the football. I may book shop or mooch around charity shops. Might get him to drop me off in Hillsborough and I'll mooch. We have to return a rug I purchased on the last visit - its moulting chunks of cord stuff - its a funky rug - don't ask!
I am chubby and weigh more than a stone than I did this time last year. I need to tackle this in as cheap a way as possible.
Good things that have made me smile!!!!
- Nice visit from Biggles mother - we had days out over the weekend - popped to the beach every day ! Weeny girl happy as a pug in muck!
- Harvested a small crop of home grown potatoes all from a Sainsburys bag!!! Next time will spread them out a bit!!!
- Red currants! I made super sweet red currant and elder flower sorbet!!1
- An old honeydew melon left behind by Mother B became Melon and mint sorbet!!! Goes really well with a small dollop of redcurrant sorbet!
- Making fairy cakes with a fail proof recipe!!! with weeny one. we are liking that at the moment!
I hope to get to see my Mum in September. Its really shite I don't have the money to visit her. 3hr + drive there and back eats petrol and I just don't have it at the moment.
B and I are supposed to have a few days off together - we couldn't get our leave to synch - specific demands of my new job, his leave booked months and months in advance.
House goes - I move with B or I move to somewhere more affordable where I can work part time
(4 days) or term time. Option B involves finding a a new job or doing a PGCE. - I have my eye on one in (County Durham). This should give me more time to be the parent I want to be, be able to take weeny to swimming lessons, ballet etc etc
PG or sell the house or both asap. No need for the silly pills then eh!
I would be just too lucky then and that's really not me!
xxx
Tuesday, 2 August 2011
Well this ain't the plan...
Ha when I left the ejaculation weeny was 8 months old. she was planned. He was a bag of shite from approx 20weeks gestation. I decided to go it alone.
The plan was to move out, buy a house, work full time till weeny was due to start school ( September 2012) then reduce my hours to term time. The pay off for leaving my small child at nursery working full time making the sacrifices was that I would get to spend quality time when she was older - 4-5ish and would remember it more and need it more quite frankly. The plan was to work hard, be frugal pay off debt, make headway with the house before reducing hours and pay. I was doing ok. But that was last year. Thanks to that tory twat who shall remain nameless I was made redundant nearly a year ago. Ok I thought while under threat - new life plan required!!! House on market, look at living in cheaper areas etc etc Consider all options, think outside the box. be prepared to up sticks and move, return to uni if necessary etc etc etc Find new job as an interim measure- done that twice.
The job is fine - money still no where near as good as I had previously and also further away. I am unable to get to work for 8:30 more like 8.40 - 8.45 so am late every day . Currently sneaking in the side enterance. There will also be times when I need to work late. This wil lcost in extra childcare which I will not make back. I live 45 mins away from work thats after the ten min drive to day care.
Options - longer daycare for weeny one 7:30 start??? 6pm finish???? 10-11hrs a day???? Would have to look at child minders for this.
Starting school is a logistical nightmare which weighs on me. My choice of school is dictated by childcare. And the local school is quite frankly good for childcare, closer but shite for everything else. Practical but pants.
B has a posting to London better than Wiltshire. Our plans are buggerd thanks to this sodding house that no one wants. I can't even give it away. Happy to loose up to 7k- well not happy but prepared.
I really cannot afford to live here- costs too much in time, money, quality of life for me and weeny- who is still desperate to start school, go to ballet and swimming lessons just like her little pals from two parent families who have supportive relatives- grand parents in the vicinity.
Cant afford to rent it out either. Can the fairies magic it away please??? leaving a little pot of shiny stuff - not big half of the shiny stuff I put down will do.... ok 1/3rd???
Trying to wrack my brain for a solution but am stumped big time.
Financially I am working at a deficit all the time and will undoubtedly end up in more debt- not spent on clothes, fancy possession but bills, car costs, house repair expenses child care.
And to top ot off irrational little voice inteh head keeps going ''see you failed again, haven't achieved and won't achieve anything you set out to do... looser, failure, under achiever...'' I know its irrational I shake myself but the naggin glittle twat sneaks in again with his mates regret and guilt to keep me up at night. tossers!
xx
The plan was to move out, buy a house, work full time till weeny was due to start school ( September 2012) then reduce my hours to term time. The pay off for leaving my small child at nursery working full time making the sacrifices was that I would get to spend quality time when she was older - 4-5ish and would remember it more and need it more quite frankly. The plan was to work hard, be frugal pay off debt, make headway with the house before reducing hours and pay. I was doing ok. But that was last year. Thanks to that tory twat who shall remain nameless I was made redundant nearly a year ago. Ok I thought while under threat - new life plan required!!! House on market, look at living in cheaper areas etc etc Consider all options, think outside the box. be prepared to up sticks and move, return to uni if necessary etc etc etc Find new job as an interim measure- done that twice.
The job is fine - money still no where near as good as I had previously and also further away. I am unable to get to work for 8:30 more like 8.40 - 8.45 so am late every day . Currently sneaking in the side enterance. There will also be times when I need to work late. This wil lcost in extra childcare which I will not make back. I live 45 mins away from work thats after the ten min drive to day care.
Options - longer daycare for weeny one 7:30 start??? 6pm finish???? 10-11hrs a day???? Would have to look at child minders for this.
Starting school is a logistical nightmare which weighs on me. My choice of school is dictated by childcare. And the local school is quite frankly good for childcare, closer but shite for everything else. Practical but pants.
B has a posting to London better than Wiltshire. Our plans are buggerd thanks to this sodding house that no one wants. I can't even give it away. Happy to loose up to 7k- well not happy but prepared.
I really cannot afford to live here- costs too much in time, money, quality of life for me and weeny- who is still desperate to start school, go to ballet and swimming lessons just like her little pals from two parent families who have supportive relatives- grand parents in the vicinity.
Cant afford to rent it out either. Can the fairies magic it away please??? leaving a little pot of shiny stuff - not big half of the shiny stuff I put down will do.... ok 1/3rd???
Trying to wrack my brain for a solution but am stumped big time.
Financially I am working at a deficit all the time and will undoubtedly end up in more debt- not spent on clothes, fancy possession but bills, car costs, house repair expenses child care.
And to top ot off irrational little voice inteh head keeps going ''see you failed again, haven't achieved and won't achieve anything you set out to do... looser, failure, under achiever...'' I know its irrational I shake myself but the naggin glittle twat sneaks in again with his mates regret and guilt to keep me up at night. tossers!
xx
More crap - something nice to report would be a change.
More crap. Got a speeding ticket, speed course to pay for. Yes was speeding by 5 miles on a road I am unfamilliar with in the country- Melmersby in cumbria, Grand total £145.
MOT for old car to pay - car mechanic was very late getting the bill out and I really don't think this one is paid. £139
So £300 so far.
There goes the private clinic - £ 285
I have never had so much debt in addition:
I owe M £3k
I owe B £900
I owe CC £900
I am not saving for anything as I have debt to pay.
Its been over 12 months since I was put at risk of redundancy. 11 months since I put the house on the market and I have dropped 17k off the price. Dropping anymore and I will be making a loss if it ever sells.
I need to pay for the following in the coming months
Extra radiator approx 250
Car tax ( 115)
Dentist ( I owe 16.50 plus what ever treatment I require)
Shoes for weeny girl ( Clarkes 30 approx) The strap broke on her last ones that still fitted. Unable to be fixed and she is due new ones in September.
Am completely pig sick of it all. Wish I had some nice stuff to show for the debt lol but I don't.
Oh well - teeth gritted, tears wiped, fists clenched. Feck it!
Oh and to top it off the straw that broke the camels back was that my online bank was unable to show me a statement.
MOT for old car to pay - car mechanic was very late getting the bill out and I really don't think this one is paid. £139
So £300 so far.
There goes the private clinic - £ 285
I have never had so much debt in addition:
I owe M £3k
I owe B £900
I owe CC £900
I am not saving for anything as I have debt to pay.
Its been over 12 months since I was put at risk of redundancy. 11 months since I put the house on the market and I have dropped 17k off the price. Dropping anymore and I will be making a loss if it ever sells.
I need to pay for the following in the coming months
Extra radiator approx 250
Car tax ( 115)
Dentist ( I owe 16.50 plus what ever treatment I require)
Shoes for weeny girl ( Clarkes 30 approx) The strap broke on her last ones that still fitted. Unable to be fixed and she is due new ones in September.
Am completely pig sick of it all. Wish I had some nice stuff to show for the debt lol but I don't.
Oh well - teeth gritted, tears wiped, fists clenched. Feck it!
Oh and to top it off the straw that broke the camels back was that my online bank was unable to show me a statement.
Wednesday, 20 July 2011
credit cards and utilites! Fugal questions!
The time is nearly upon me to switch utility companies and also credit card!
Utilities!
I am due to have gas central heating fitted soon. ( Not that bothered about it to be honest but its through a gov scheme so will cost very little). I have a few questions.
given that I am a skin flint and only spend £68 on electric each month could I potentially use/ spend about the same on dual fuel? ie Gas and electric. Am thinking £ 40 pcm Gas and 30 on Electric.
I will be shopping around for the best deal naturally and have used uswitch to identify some potential but given that I will have Gas its a new territory for me.
I hardly heat water but do use a dishwasher (my indulgence), only ever use washing machine at night when its cheap electricity , only heat thhe room that I am using/intend to use as I have storage , go to bed early etc etc etc I have an electric shower.
What do you reckon Frugal folk??? Am I under estimating useage now that I will be changing to dual fuel???
Credit Cards - am I right in assuming that barclay card may be the best one at the moment?
Utilities!
I am due to have gas central heating fitted soon. ( Not that bothered about it to be honest but its through a gov scheme so will cost very little). I have a few questions.
given that I am a skin flint and only spend £68 on electric each month could I potentially use/ spend about the same on dual fuel? ie Gas and electric. Am thinking £ 40 pcm Gas and 30 on Electric.
I will be shopping around for the best deal naturally and have used uswitch to identify some potential but given that I will have Gas its a new territory for me.
I hardly heat water but do use a dishwasher (my indulgence), only ever use washing machine at night when its cheap electricity , only heat thhe room that I am using/intend to use as I have storage , go to bed early etc etc etc I have an electric shower.
What do you reckon Frugal folk??? Am I under estimating useage now that I will be changing to dual fuel???
Credit Cards - am I right in assuming that barclay card may be the best one at the moment?
Monday, 18 July 2011
Sigh,.....life shouldn't be this much of a mountain!
Well I need another blood test to establish if this is a one off or not. And have been ref to hospital. This may take too long for me and being the inpatient so and so I am have started to look at other options - private bloods, prescriptions etc. I shall only go as far as fertility drugs and that's it. B and bit disappointed - hasn't said so but I can tell.
Just my luck!!!! And I can't even blame that arse Cameron for this bit of bad luck.. no wait yes I can STRESS!!!!! House stress, job stress - he made the drastic Local Authority cuts and buggered the house market locally ( due partially to the cuts which has hit our area significantly. Biggest employer was LA.)
Better points - having gas fitted 29th July then work can begin asap and hopefully this will bring in more buyers.
I will have to fork out for an additional radiator in bathroom (£250 approx). They will be used sparingly. I doubt it will be as cheap as £63 a month!!! And I will def scam for the best price for utilities.
After shopping weeny girl fell asleep in the car on the way home. I woke her up and she staggered to the sofa. Back to sleep. I put away shopping etc etc. No movement - put her to bed after removing shoes etc etc and is still asleep now - that's her for the evening.
Sigh I get to see so little of her it really is super bloody SHITE.
Just my luck!!!! And I can't even blame that arse Cameron for this bit of bad luck.. no wait yes I can STRESS!!!!! House stress, job stress - he made the drastic Local Authority cuts and buggered the house market locally ( due partially to the cuts which has hit our area significantly. Biggest employer was LA.)
Better points - having gas fitted 29th July then work can begin asap and hopefully this will bring in more buyers.
I will have to fork out for an additional radiator in bathroom (£250 approx). They will be used sparingly. I doubt it will be as cheap as £63 a month!!! And I will def scam for the best price for utilities.
After shopping weeny girl fell asleep in the car on the way home. I woke her up and she staggered to the sofa. Back to sleep. I put away shopping etc etc. No movement - put her to bed after removing shoes etc etc and is still asleep now - that's her for the evening.
Sigh I get to see so little of her it really is super bloody SHITE.
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